
1. Berhenti semasa bercakap. (sharp pause)
Apabila seseorang itu berbohong, dia berhenti sejenak lebih lama di tengah-tengah ayat, menyediakan lebih pendek jawapan, dan mengambil masa yang lebih lama untuk memulakan tindak balas daripada seseorang yang semata-mata saraf. Selepas semua, menjelaskan Salem, beliau memerlukan masa untuk membuat dusta. Juga, memeriksa matanya. Orang cenderung untuk melihat ke kanan untuk menggambarkan atau mengada-adakan sambutan, dan ke bawah ke kanan untuk mencipta bunyi. Kami masih ingat benar dengan melihat ke atas atau ke bawah ke kiri.
2. Berlebihan isyarat
Apabila orang berbohong, mereka bergerak tangan mereka banyak dan menggunakan "adapter" yang, pergerakan saraf seperti menggaru badan atau remeh-temeh dengan pensil, kata Salem. Jika calon ditanya soalan dan segera mengambil pen dan mula bermain, sesuatu yang tidak kena separa sedar.
3. Kurang daripada isyarat
Sebaliknya, pembohong yang diamalkan akan cuba untuk mengawal gerak isyarat. Richard Nixon telah melatih tinggal masih semasa pasca-Watergate penampilan TV, kata Salem. "Dia memelihara mukanya tak terperikan, bahagian atas badan kaku, dan kakinya menyeberangi," katanya. "Pertama, dia memandang dibekukan. Dan kemudian, apabila dia tidak boleh memegang apa-apa yang lebih panjang, beliau membocorkan isyarat agresif, seperti menuding jari dan menggenggam usul. Gerakan-gerakan ini jarang sekali seiring dengan perkataan-bendera merah yang sebenar. "
4. Bibir yang ketat
Cari pergerakan yang luar biasa mulut, bibir atau lidah, kata Salem. Dalam temu bual dengan NBC kira-kira WMDs Iraq, Naib Presiden Dick Cheney mengetatkan dan menghisap bibirnya alir masuk kali setengah lusin. Bibir yang ketat menunjukkan seseorang itu boleh menyembunyikan kebenaran. Jika dia menghisap bibirnya, dia boleh marah pegangan. Juga, apabila seseorang mendapat saraf, mulutnya menjadi kering, jadi dia licks bibir dan menelan. Semasa Iran Contra perbicaraan, saksi ramai yang meminta air. Clinton diperlukan soda semasa kemunculannya grand-juri.
5. Penciptaan halangan
Sama seperti kita tarik turun warna di rumah, kami menutup pintu masuk ke badan kita supaya perasaan kita yang sebenar tidak dapat dilihat. "Orang-orang yang berdusta cenderung melekat tangan mereka dalam poket mereka, kertak gigi mereka, atau memegang mereka di belakang mereka," kata Salem. "Atau mereka akan memegang objek (walaupun pen) di hadapan badan mereka, lipat lengan mereka, berdiri di sisi, atau tidak pernah muncul dari belakang podium."
6. Keadaan yang tidak Matching tingkah laku
Memandangkan tuduhan itu, seseorang akan mempunyai dijangka Clinton emosi marah dan malu. Sebaliknya, beliau mula I-tidak-tidak-mempunyai-sex penafian tenang. Kekurangan kesesuaian tanda tidak ikhlas, kata Salem.
7. Separuh Smiles
Senyuman sebenar perubahan seluruh wajah, kata Salem. Mata menyala. Dahi kedut, kening dan pipi kenaikan otot, kulit di sekeliling mata dan crinkles mulut. Dan, akhirnya, mulut bertukar. Ia lambat untuk muncul dan hilang. Dalam senyuman pelekat, bergerak hanyalah sudut-sudut mulut, dan kerap mereka lengkung. Ia pantas muncul, dan terhapus hanya berpuasa. Berjaga-jaga.
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Translator trough Google Translate... Ayat mungkin berterabur..
English:
1. Sharp pause
When a person is lying, he paused for a moment longer in the middle of sentences, provide shorter answers, and take longer to start a reaction from someone who is just nervous. After all, explains Salem, he needed time to make a lie. Also, check his eyes. People tend to look to the right to represent or invent a response, and down to the right to create a sound. We still remember is to look up or down to the left.
2. Excessive signal
When people lie, they move their hands a lot and use the "adapter" which, nervous movements like scratching the body or fiddling with a pencil, said Salem. If the candidates were asked, and immediately took the pen and start playing, something is wrong subliminal.
3. Less than a signal
On the other hand, practiced liar who will try to control gestures.Richard Nixon had been trained to stay still during the post-Watergate television appearances, said Salem. "He kept his face inexpressive, upper body stiff, and his legs crossed," he said. "First, he looked frozen. And then, when he can not hold any longer, he leaked the aggressive signals, such as pointing a finger and grasping motions. These movements are rarely in line with the words real red flag."
4. Tight lips
Discover the extraordinary movement of the mouth, lips or tongue, said Salem. In an interview with NBC about WMDs in Iraq, Vice President Dick Cheney, his lips tighten and suck inward half-dozen times. Shows a tight lips could hide the truth. If he was sucking her lips, holding her to be angry. Also, when someone gets nervous, his mouth becomes dry, so she licks her lips and swallowing. During the Iran Contra hearing, witnesses many people ask for water. Clinton needed sodas during grand-jury appearance.
5. Creation of barriers
Just as we drop down color at home, we close the entrance to our bodies so that our true feelings can not be seen. "People who lie tend to stick their hands in their pockets, gnashing their teeth, or hold them on their backs," said Salem. "Or they will hold the object (even a pen) in front of their body, fold their arms, standing on the side, or never emerged from behind the podium."
6. Matching Uncertainty of behavior
Given the charge, one would have expected Clinton's emotions of anger and shame. Instead, he started I-not-not-have-sex denial quiet. Lack of appropriate signs are not sincere, Salem said.
7. Half Smiles
Real smile changes the entire face, said Salem. Eyes light up.Forehead wrinkles, brow and cheeks increase in muscle, skin crinkles around the eyes and mouth. And, finally, the mouth changes. It is slow to appear and disappear. In the smile stickers, moving only the corners of the mouth, and often they curve. It quickly appears, and vanishes only fasting. Vigilance.
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